One Time, One Night: Fangirl Extra and Shah Rukh Khan, My Name Is Khan

July 6, 2009 at 6:04 pm 21 comments

Shah Rukh Khan and friends in San Francisco, My Name Is Khan, 2009

Shah Rukh Khan and friends, My Name Is Khan location, San Francisco, 2009

I’ve known for a while that Shah Rukh Khan’s newest movie, My Name Is Khan (MNIK), would be filming in California this summer and I was amused to think that the King of Bollywood, as well as his equally fabulous co-star, Kajol, would possibly be within a few hundred miles of me sometime this month.

When the movie shoot finally arrived here I realized that, according to various Bollywood fansites, MNIK was not only filming in California but in San Francisco, within miles of my house. Like the good otaku that I am, I tried to track down the production in hopes of possibly seeing SRK up close and in person.

Shah Rukh Khan smoking, Market Street, My Name Is Khan location, San Francisco, 2009

Shah Rukh Khan smoking, Market Street, My Name Is Khan location, San Francisco, 2009

At first I tried to trace SRK’s whereabouts via twitter, but the news was always a little too late—I found out he was at the Palace of Fine Arts a day after the shoot there; he was at Dolores Park on a Friday but I read about it the following Sunday; the movie crew was in the South Bay for a couple days but it was impossible and insane for me to drive two hours in the hopes of crashing a closed set to catch a glimpse of him. Then by chance I ran into an Indian couple at my excellent local video store, Four-Star Video, and chatted with them in front of the store’s newly inaugurated Bollywood section (full disclosure: I helped Ken Shelf, the store’s awesome proprietor, pick out several of the movies therein and wrote the blurbs for him, too). The Indian couple mentioned that they’d just been extras on MNIK and that the production was probably still seeking people for the last couple days of filming. So I raced home and looked up the information about becoming an extra, emailed the casting agency, and within a couple hours had received a call back to work on the very last day of the shoot.

It sounded great at first, but then I found out that the location was in Healdsburg, which is about 1.5 hours north of where I live, and the call time was 6 pm, with shooting to possibly go up to 4 am. Would I be able to keep my eyes open? (I hadn’t pulled an all-nighter in many a year, especially without extreme chemical assistance). Would my kids freak out if I was gone that long? Where the hell would I sleep once the shoot was over?

In a panic I posted on facebook—what to do? As expected nearly everyone who responded urged me to do it, but I was still undecidedly fretting about it the next day. Finally I figured out the logistics (take a nap earlier that day, don’t let the kids know I’d be gone all night, sleep at a friend’s place), but when I called the casting agency back, they’d already filled their quota for extras! Ah, the irony! but they put me on the backup list in case there was a cancellation. I sulked for a few hours, then the casting folks called back and told me I was in.

So at 6 pm the next day, after fighting holiday rush hour traffic up Highway 101, I signed in at the location with 300 other extras and settled down with a book (The Golden Compass) and my iPhone (to live-tweet the whole event) and waited the extra wait. As anyone knows who’s worked as talent on a movie, there’s a whole lot of sitting around interspersed by brief bursts of shooting activity, then more sitting around, repeated ad infinitum. True to form, the extras weren’t bussed to the set until three hours after we’d arrived—by then filming had started and things were jumping.

Kajol texting, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

Kajol texting, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

Myself and a few other eagle-eyed fans quickly spotted Kajol, MNIK’s beautiful, violet-eyed lead actress, near the edge of the shoot as she hung out shooting the breeze with the natty, baby-faced Karan Johar, the film’s director. I was disappointed to see that Kajol had tweezed her famous unibrow but she looked great nonetheless. Since this was one of the last days of filming there was much back-slapping and souvenir picture-taking amongst the cast and crew. I managed to fire off a couple of surreptitious, fuzzy pictures on my iPhone and post them on twitter before one of Kajol’s handlers asked me to stop.

Back of Kajol & Karan Johar, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

Back of Kajol, Karan Johar & friend, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

More waiting around, then we extras, or “background,” in Bollywood parlance, were pressed into action. I was envious of the fancy lighting rig, including a huge, helium-filled china-ball lantern that floated many feet above the crowd, and two twenty-by-thirty foot scrims to diffuse the giant lights that lit the scene. This was a top-notch, high-end production, with a crew of about 200, and as complex and professionally run as any Hollywood set I’ve been on (which, admittedly, have been very few).

After a while filming without any of the principle actors, I was standing near the edge of the set when a ripple went through the crowd. And there he was, cigarette in hand, strolling up the path with an entourage of about 15 people, five feet from where I stood. He was wearing a white caftan and looked quite kingly, in a casual sort of way. Needless to say I was overcome by fangirl recklessness and, with a tiny shriek, called out, “Shah Rukh!” SRK waved lazily in our general direction and continued on his way. As he passed by us another, much louder series of screams and calls came from the other side of the plaza where we were shooting and I realized that a good-sized crowd had formed at the perimeter of the location, held back by several wary-looking security guards and a ring of caution tape. Apparently every Indian in Sonoma County had gotten wind of the filming and had trekked to Healdsburg in hopes of spying Shah Rukh Khan, and now that the man himself had arrived they were very vocal in expressing their delight.

The crowd, seemingly consisting of entire families, stayed on until well past midnight. At one point SRK waved directly at the eager onlookers and they shrieked in admiration, but whenever the AD called “Silence!” (Bollywood-speak for “quiet on the set”), they quickly fell into rapt quiescence. Amongst the extras, however, the majority were unfamiliar with SRK—a few people asked me who he was and which of his films they should watch (all of them!). There were some clued-in folks, though, including one (non-Indian) couple who had driven down from Washington State to be near their idol, and many others who kept up a constant low chatter in Hindi and boldly snapped photos of King Khan and Kajol despite the ADs stern admonitions not to do so.

Back of Shah Rukh Khan's head, very far away, My Name Is Khan set, Healdsburg, 2009

Back of Shah Rukh Khan's head, very far away, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

At one point SRK stood about ten feet from me in the crowd, but I was too cowed by the constantly prowling ADs to try to take a picture, for fear of being thrown off the set. But I did live-tweet most of the night and early on, before I lost my nerve, I shot and posted some blurry photos. This was quite fun and helped me to stave off boredom, especially when several people began following and tweeting back for more information.

In person SRK looked exactly like he does onscreen, though perhaps a bit more slender and compact. He’s also very focused when he’s performing, though between takes he was pretty chill, taking lots of ciggie breaks and chatting with assorted paparazzi. Likewise, Kajol didn’t have any diva moments and hung out on set most of the time with the rest of us peons instead of hiding in her trailer. Altogether it was a pretty tightly run ship, without any star-drama or untoward extra-abuse. We were allowed to watch the filming, sit down, or wander about between takes, we got decently fed at the appropriate hour, and no one on the crew yelled at us just to vent their emotions.

Blurry but close Shah Rukh Khan, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

Blurry but close Shah Rukh Khan, My Name Is Khan location, Healdsburg, 2009

When we finally wrapped at about 2.30 am, the extras were instructed to head toward the bus that would take us back to our staging area a few blocks away. But about fifty people bolted in the opposite direction, swarming after the departing Shah Rukh Khan as he left the set. Security tried in vain to divert us but the extras, many of whom were South Asian, weren’t about to miss their chance after standing in the cold for six-and-a-half hours. Luckily SRK was really cool and allowed several people to take pictures with him, as well as signing many autographs. I got a couple of blurry but reasonable photos of him, though I was hampered by the lack of a zoom lens or a flash on my iPhone. And so my fangirl night was complete—

UPDATE: Ironically, Shah Rukh Khan was just detained by while trying to enter the U.S. at the Newark (New Jersey) airport for almost two hours for unclear reasons. Speculation is that his last name (which is common among Muslim Indians) set off alarm bells at the airport.

According to the New York Daily News, after the incident SRK texted to reporters, “I was really being hassled, perhaps because of my name being Khan. These guys wouldn’t let me through.”

I can just imagine the exchange in the Customs interrogation room:

SRK: I’m the biggest movie star in India!”

Customs: Mmmmhmmm.

SRK: I’m here as to lead a parade celebrating Indian independence!

Customs: Sure you are.

SRK: A billion people recognize me by sight!

Customs: But we don’t. So tell us the real reason you’re coming to America, MISTER Khan.

Although his travel papers were in order, at first Shah Rukh Khan wasn’t permitted to use his cell phone and, despite being recognized by several fellow travelers, he was only released after he was allowed to call the Indian embassy and an official vouched for him.

There’s a huge discussion on twitter about it and some wags speculate that it’s all a publicity stunt to promote MNIK. Whatever the truth may be, you can be sure that the shrewd and canny SRK will be milking for all it’s worth.

Thanks to dleedlee and Sunny for tipping me to this while I’m on vacation, otherwise I might have missed it.

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21 Comments Add your own

  • 1. duriandave  |  July 6, 2009 at 6:41 pm

    Wow… cool! 😀

    So, what exactly were you doing as the background?

    I hope we can spot you in the movie when it gets released. 🙂

    • 2. valeriesoe  |  July 6, 2009 at 6:51 pm

      Hi DD,

      I was standing around holding a candle way in the back so you probably won’t see me. But my intent was to get as close to SRK as possible, not to get onscreen, so—mission accomplished!


  • 3. Mark Jaramilla  |  July 6, 2009 at 8:14 pm

    “like a good otaku” Bwahahahahaha

    I bow to you V! I was keeping up with your facebook, but to realize the complexity of your adventure, I’m ever so proud of you!

    • 4. valeriesoe  |  July 7, 2009 at 12:09 am

      Thanks, Mark. I’m glad I did it, otherwise I’d regret missing it the rest of my life. Gotta keep up my geek cred, y’know.


  • 5. Donna  |  July 7, 2009 at 12:27 am

    You are a tenacious fan! Go Val!

    • 6. valeriesoe  |  July 7, 2009 at 2:01 am

      I can’t tell if it’s an unhealthy fixation or not but it was pretty fun one way or another.


  • 7. Yatima  |  July 7, 2009 at 1:51 am

    This is so awesome! You can totally check it off your life list 🙂

    • 8. valeriesoe  |  July 7, 2009 at 2:02 am

      Thanks, Yatima–I can’t think of anything else on my list right now, either, which is kind of scary.


  • 9. dleedlee  |  July 7, 2009 at 4:36 pm

    Congratulations on having an terrific adventure!
    Ga Yau!

    • 10. valeriesoe  |  July 7, 2009 at 10:09 pm

      Now if only Francis Ng would shoot a movie in San Francisco my life would be complete.


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  • 12. dleedlee  |  August 16, 2009 at 12:57 am

    Thought you might be interested in this news item:

    Bollywood superstar Shah Rukh Khan is downplaying being questioned at the New Jersey airport.

    Press Trust of India news agency reported that Kahn said he was detained for two hours because his name came up on a computer alert list at Newark Liberty International Airport in New Jersey. U.S. customs officials say Khan was questioned as part of a routine process that took 66 minutes.

    Asked to comment on what happened, Khan told reporters at an Indian festival in suburban Chicago, “I think it’s a procedure that needs to be followed, but an unfortunate procedure.”

    He also said he does not want an apology from the U.S. government.

    Khan is in the U.S. to promote his new film, “My Name is Khan,” which is about racial profiling.

    • 13. valeriesoe  |  August 16, 2009 at 4:39 am

      Hey D,

      Thanks for the info! I heard about this from another person, too. Ironic that this happened to SRK just before MNIK is completed, since it’s all about a Muslim who’s persecuted in the US after 9/11. More in the update above.


  • 14. dleedlee  |  August 17, 2009 at 4:53 am

    SRK: A billion people recognize me by sight!

    It must be an NJ thing: Bob Dylan was picked up last month for suspicious activity:

    Last month, homeowners in Long Branch, 30 miles south of New York, phoned the authorities when they noticed a scruffy figure ambling along a residential street and entering the yard of an up-for-sale house.

    Soaking wet, Dylan, 68, gave his name to Kristie Buble, a 24-year-old police officer, and informed her that he was in town to headline a concert with country star Willie Nelson and rocker John Mellencamp. She was sceptical.

    “I’ve seen pictures of Bob Dylan from a long time ago and he didn’t look like Bob Dylan to me at all,” Buble told ABC News. “He was wearing black sweatpants tucked into black rain boots, and two raincoats with the hood pulled down over his head.”

    This is what becomes of a generation raised only on reality TV!

  • 15. leannan  |  September 6, 2009 at 3:07 am

    can’t wait for my name is khan. haaaaah, i really, really, in love to SRK and Kajol. I’m their big fan.

    • 16. valeriesoe  |  September 12, 2009 at 4:56 am

      i can’t wait to see it, either! i love a good srk/kajol/karan johar flick and this one looks really great. although rumor has it that there will be no songs or musical numbers.


  • 17. Malvina  |  November 30, 2009 at 9:36 am

    I love Shahrukh Khan.You are best.

  • 18. Hrishi  |  January 31, 2010 at 1:28 pm

    Wow!! so you actually saw the king??
    I wish i were as you…

    • 19. valeriesoe  |  February 4, 2010 at 7:14 pm

      Yes, it was great! He seems like a super-nice person, especially considering he’s one of the biggest movie stars on the planet. Looking forward to seeing MNIK in a week or so!

  • 20. khan hemu  |  February 14, 2010 at 3:36 pm

    i love king khan

    • 21. valeriesoe  |  February 15, 2010 at 6:04 am

      me too! can’t wait to see MNIK!


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